Steph Tharaldson

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December 26, 1988 ~ August 16, 2024

Born in: Minneapolis, MN

Age 35 of Minneapolis, passed away unexpectedly on August 16, 2024.

Preceded in death by grandparents, Ray & Sylvia Brown, Dennis Tharaldson.  Survived by mother, Stacey (John) Collins; father, Bruce (Linda) Tharaldson; sister, Nicole (Erik) Goodman; niece, Emily; grandmother, Ester Tharaldson; step-siblings, Amanda Collins, Tom Collins, Jack Collins, Andrea (Matt) Schochow, Jessica Laney, Jessica (Eric) Humphreys; kitties, Wolfie & Lito; many aunts, uncles, cousins & dear friends.

Steph was a life force, turning the ordinary into extraordinary, sharing inspiration through their unique perspective on life.  Quick-witted and full of charm, Steph’s unique sense of humor brought joy and laughter to those around them.

Steph was a true creator, an artist possessing the ability to blend art with emotion, whether crafting intricate drawings, heartfelt writing, or inventing games to make family gatherings unforgettable.  Steph approached life with a fearless spirit, was open to new experiences, and passionate about games.   Fiercely competitive, Steph often declared, “I think we can all agree, everyone’s happier when I win!”

Steph’s love was unwavering and deep, a fierce advocate for friends, family, and anyone who crossed their path, always encouraging others to live their truest, most authentic lives.  For Steph, love was about embracing who you are and loving without boundaries.

As a massage therapist, Steph’s hands were magical.  Specializing in Shiatsu and Swedish techniques, they believed deeply in the mind-body connection.   Steph’s approach was rooted in a deep, intuitive understanding of the body’s energy, coupled with a technical knowledge that made their touch truly transformative.   The absence of Steph’s healing hands is a loss we will all feel deeply, but their spirit will continue to surround and touch us forever.

Though life provided Steph with some challenges, they had a truly inspiring resilience, and an extraordinary ability to live fully in the moment.  In this, Steph taught us all a lesson in living genuinely.

Steph’s final gift of organ donation brings peace, as Steph will live on through others, including two kidney transplants to individuals connected with Steph’s family.

SendOff Details

An outdoor memorial service will be held to honor and celebrate Steph’s life on Sunday, August 25th. Venue opens at 10:30 am, with service beginning at 11:00 am, at Woods Chapel, 525 Leaf Street, Long Lake, MN.  Please come as you are, in true Steph fashion.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in their name to an organization supporting either holistic health practices or organ donation.

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  1. I met Steph in high school, at a time when we all were trying to figure out what life was about. She helped me in many ways others could not. She helped me laugh and have fun despite struggles I was having. We listened to strange and cool music I didn’t know existed. Though we grew apart in our adult lives, I think of her as someone who had a profoundly positive impact on my life, helping me see the world in a new light. Steph will never be forgotten. May she be at peace, drumming her favorite tunes on heavenly trash cans.

    -Anastasiya

  2. Last thing Steph said to me “Ned, I never understand what you’re saying half the time. you gotta be one of the weirdest persons I know!” And we both laughed like kids on the bus. Her, smile, candor, and wit I will cherish. We know are friends by their defects. This old adage didn’t apply to her. She only saw the best attributes in her fellow man. I know she met her fate with a laugh. Steph got the joke.
    -ned

  3. In her career, Stephanie was a light in the lives of so many people who loved her for her bodywork and her gentle spirit. She knew how to be right there with you in your pain. People felt safe and cared for in her presence.

    It is with a heavy heart that I find Stephanie is now gone from family and friends, and I am sorry for the broken hearts that remain in the wake. I believe that Stephanie has been commended into the hands of God for safe keeping until we meet again.

  4. Steph will be remembered as a beautiful soul-exceptional healer, a positive force, with outpouring of love for friends, family, nature, pets and LIFE. Take care all!

  5. No one knew how to grab sparks of joy and hold onto them like Steph did. Even during hard times, they were still able to remember not to take life too seriously. They were made up of opposites. They looked tough in their leather jacket but were so soft and kind. They were strong and resilient, but also sensitive and emotional. Meeting them changed the trajectory of my life for the better. I hope they knew how many people loved them.

  6. I will miss their smile and hugs and laugh and their hands were so strong and caring. I will miss Steph so much. It was always a joy to hang with Steph in community, they made me feel welcome and loved and always had a warm energy. This is tragic. All of us will miss Steph.

  7. Steph, you had such a beautiful and loving soul. I always will remember you. Thank you for all of your kindness. You are missed.

    Birdie

  8. “To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

    Steph succeeded in life, by this definition, more than most all other humans I’ve met. They embodied warm, caring, accepting energy and blessed so many people with a safe space & abundant love.

    Steph led by example, spreading joy, peace, and kindness everywhere they went. I’ve reflected on how to let their values live on through me. Even through small routines or rituals. Like taking one day a week to do absolutely nothing, as Steph did on Sundays, claiming the importance of creating a regular space to restore.

    Steph was worth the pain of loosing, just to have known being loved by them. Thank you for your love, Steph. You are missed and cherished deeply. I’m so lucky to have known you. To have laughed with you. To have cried with you. To have breathed easier because of you.

  9. Bruce and Stacey (and families) –
    My sincerest condolences go out to all of you during this difficult time and want you to know you’re in my thoughts and prayers. Just reading about Steph, they were an inspiration to others and their legacy will live on forever. Big hugs to both of you and hope your memories of Steph bring you much-needed joy and comfort.
    Janet (Hagestuen) Bolander

  10. Such a beautiful person and soul. I met you about 2 yrs ago. We always laughed, dance and had fun out on the “Patio”. I am going to miss your cheerful spirit. May peace and comfort surround your family 🤍

  11. Stacey and family……words are not much comfort at this time of unexpected, enormous loss! Our prayers for all of you are simply to let you know ya’ll are not forgotten in your sorrows and we further pray that your loss and the huge void left behind will not create more emotional chasms amongst yourselves left behind, struggling for understanding and comfort. Steph is in a better place. Let that thought be of some comfort for ya’ll despite your own overwhelming chaos of emotions and search for understanding. You are loved and always in our prayers!! Huge hugs …. Brian & Terri Brevig

  12. From the minute I meet Steph I knew she was genuine. She made everything fun, even if it was just watching TV. She always had me laughing and smiling. She made it a priority to let me know that she saw me, and loved me no mater what. I love you friend and will miss you. Until we meet again 💖


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